Are Independent Women Too Strong for today's Man? Can strong women be too independent?
Should married or coupled women have their own bank accounts or does that mean they aren't committed to the marriage/relationship?
Are strong women.... married or single... TOO strong for today's man?
Should finances even play a part in relationships or does that kill the romance?
From a personal view (and know my business partner Amber feels the same), as business women we believe in having seperate bank accounts and one for house expenses. Personally for me, I much rather have it this way (though I know a lot of people ask my why).
There are many reasons and one, itt's my Independence and financial freedom. I have my own earnings and don't need to justify what personal expenses or purchases I pay. I pay for children's things (school supplies, lunches, sports, shoes, clothing, etc) and have my own business to run. I've set my own budget and if I want to buy a pair of shoes or pack of gum, I do so.
When we go for dinner, we go Dutch, or I'll treat or he'll treat. We have open communication in our relationship and trust me when I say it was a lot of growing pains and finding balance but after nine years of partnership, we've pretty much got all the kinks work out. Honestly, it causes less fights too and in my opinion, no, doesn't make me any less committed to my relationship. Money and finances are just an additional fuel and if this can be eliminated from an argument, well all the more power to you!
I am certainly in no means a relationship expert. This is what has worked for me and after speaking with other women and learning the downfalls they have had in their relationship or the same sentiments of keeping seperate accounts where partners know or they don't (guys, some hidden so don't fool yourselves thinking they're not smart cookies!), it's truly up the individual.
So, would love to hear your feedback and what you find what works and doesn't work. Creating a network and support is a wonderful thing and benefit as additional resource in today's world.
Also, from a business standpoint, don't forget that my team and I are never too busy for your referrals! If buying, selling, renting or relocating to Barrie, give me a call! Oh yeah I have to fulfill my obligations by including this disclaimer - for informational purposes to inform and provide insight. I'm not intending to solicit you and most especially if you have a written buyer agency agreement with another Realtor. Other than that....Much success in health, health and happiness!
Shannon P. Murree, Sales Representative RE/MAX Chay Realty Inc, Brokerage
"It's not just about buildings, it's building relationships"
