Prince Charming is Not a Financial Plan

Prince Charming is Not a Financial Plan

When we were younger girls, it was all about romance and playing with Barbie™. Do you ever remember having your Barbie™ sit at the play table with her friends and witness them discussing how they were going to finance that dream camper vacation or afford that brand new convertible they wanted? After all, that was the land of make believe and all in good fun, right?

Now that we’re older the reality sets in and we’re dealing with challenging life lessons and responsibilities. Does this mean fun is over? The answer to that is an outstanding no! It doesn’t mean that your dreams have to be put on hold. In wanting or waiting for Prince Charming doesn’t exactly mean you should be held back nor truly, is that the way to creating wealth, financial independence or monetary gain we’re all deserving of. Making those dreams a reality is possible.

Whether or not “Prince Charming” is in your life doesn’t mean your financial goals should be put on hold. In what used to be a heavily male-dominated industry, many women are finding success in real estate and investing. There are many ways to create wealth and achieve the lifestyle you desire.

Some of the steps to get started on your financial path of happiness are aligning yourself with like-minded individuals, networking, having a mentor, reading local real estate articles and books, and educating yourself and having the right team behind you. Develop an understanding about Real estate investing and know that it’s not as intimidating as you think. The purchase of the first property is the biggest hurdle and challenge. Each opportunity and deal will be different, but essentially, the fundamentals are all the same and with each deal, you’ll gain more confidence.

 It’s important to note that it’s not about “being rich” but creating wealth and securing your future. Essentially the goal is that whether you’re single or with a partner, financially, you’ll be ok. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this forward thinking. I’m sure even Barbie™ would agree with that while she’s off to pick up Ken™ for their date!

Happy investing!

Fighters for Fighters - What are YOU Fighting For?

Here is a testimonial I was asked to do and why I wanted to "fight" in the upcoming "Fighters for Fighters" event being held Wednesday, December 12th, 2012 at the Liberty North.

This is a benefit to help the Barrie Women and Children's Shelter. And despite the name...it's anything but encouraging fighting and violence. Everyone has a reason and a "why". Here's mine...

Prince Charming is Not a Financial Plan

When we were younger girls, it was all about romance and playing with Barbie™. Do you ever remember having your Barbie™ sit at the play table with her friends and witness them discussing how they were going to finance that dream camper vacation or afford that brand new convertible they wanted? After all, that was the land of make believe and all in good fun, right?

Now that we’re older the reality sets in and we’re dealing with challenging life lessons and responsibilities. Does this mean fun is over? The answer to that is an outstanding no! It doesn’t mean that your dreams have to be put on hold. In wanting or waiting for Prince Charming doesn’t exactly mean you should be held back nor truly, is that the way to creating wealth, financial independence or monetary gain we’re all deserving of. Making those dreams a reality is possible.

Whether or not “Prince Charming” is in your life doesn’t mean your financial goals should be put on hold. In what used to be a heavily male-dominated industry, many women are finding success in real estate and investing. There are many ways to create wealth and achieve the lifestyle you desire.

Some of the steps to get started on your financial path of happiness are aligning yourself with like-minded individuals, networking, having a mentor, reading local real estate articles and books, and educating yourself and having the right team behind you. Develop an understanding about Real estate investing and know that it’s not as intimidating as you think. The purchase of the first property is the biggest hurdle and challenge. Each opportunity and deal will be different, but essentially, the fundamentals are all the same and with each deal, you’ll gain more confidence.

 It’s important to note that it’s not about “being rich” but creating wealth and securing your future. Essentially the goal is that whether you’re single or with a partner, financially, you’ll be ok. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this forward thinking. I’m sure even Barbie™ would agree with that while she’s off to pick up Ken™ for their date!

Happy investing!

Shannon Murree is a Realtor® with RE/MAX Chay Realty Inc Brokerage, Property Manager and Real Estate Investor. Her main focus to motivate, empower and educate all women the importance of creating wealth and financial independence through real estate investing.

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Are Women Too Independent?

Are Independent Women Too Strong for today's Man? Can strong women be too independent?

Should married or coupled women have their own bank accounts or does that mean they aren't committed to the marriage/relationship?

Are strong women.... married or single... TOO strong for today's man?

Should finances even play a part in relationships or does that kill the romance?

From a personal view (and know my business partner Amber feels the same), as business women we believe in having seperate bank accounts and one for house expenses. Personally for me, I much rather have it this way (though I know a lot of people ask my why).

There are many reasons and one, itt's my Independence and financial freedom. I have my own earnings and don't need to justify what personal expenses or purchases I pay. I pay for children's things (school supplies, lunches, sports, shoes, clothing, etc) and have my own business to run. I've set my own budget and if I want to buy a pair of shoes or pack of gum, I do so.

When we go for dinner, we go Dutch, or I'll treat or he'll treat. We have open communication in our relationship and trust me when I say it was a lot of growing pains and finding balance but after nine years of partnership, we've pretty much got all the kinks work out. Honestly, it causes less fights too and in my opinion, no, doesn't make me any less committed to my relationship. Money and finances are just an additional fuel and if this can be eliminated from an argument, well all the more power to you!

I am certainly in no means a relationship expert. This is what has worked for me and after speaking with other women and learning the downfalls they have had in their relationship or the same sentiments of keeping seperate accounts where partners know or they don't (guys, some hidden so don't fool yourselves thinking they're not smart cookies!), it's truly up the individual.

So, would love to hear your feedback and what you find what works and doesn't work. Creating a network and support is a wonderful thing and benefit as additional resource in today's world.

Also, from a business standpoint, don't forget that my team and I are never too busy for your referrals! If buying, selling, renting or relocating to Barrie, give me a call! Oh yeah I have to fulfill my obligations by including this disclaimer - for informational purposes to inform and provide insight. I'm not intending to solicit you and most especially if you have a written buyer agency agreement with another Realtor. Other than that....Much success in health, health and happiness!

Shannon P. Murree, Sales Representative RE/MAX Chay Realty Inc, Brokerage

"It's not just about buildings, it's building relationships"